On The Brink

When it comes to sex, I would like to think that I am a considerate and unselfish partner. I sincerely nope that none of the women I have had sex with in the last three decades  have ever had cause to think differently, although I would be lying if I said I never gave my...

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Dare To Bare

I suspect that this will probably be one of the least surprising posts I have ever written. Given that I have posted a significant amount of photographic evidence revealing my penchant for alfresco nudity, I don't think anyone would have believed me if I'd even suggested that it was something I didn't do. So why do...

Word for Wednesday – Wistful

Wistful /ˈwɪstfʊl/ adjective sadly pensive, esp about something yearned for   You may be aware, but once again the lovely Tabitha Rayne is running the #30DayOrgasmFun challenge. Now while I support those taking part, sadly this is one of the few sex-blogging "challenges" that I choose to sit out. Well, I say "choose" although, if you have read this blog, it is...

#WickedWednesday Round-Up

So, how hard can it be? That's what I asked myself when I was asked if I would do this round up. I've done #SinfulSunday round-ups and I've been an e[lust] judge in the past.  It surely can't be that hard, can it? I was, of course wrong; very wrong. 24 posts relating to travel...

One Year On…

Well, who would have thought it? It would seem that a year has gone by since I first posted on this blog, and that this entry marks my 113th post (my 100th being this one if anyone is actually interested). A fair amount has happened in that time. A lot of it good, a fair bit of...

Dating v Hooking Up

The last date that I had in the "traditional" sense of the word was back in 2005. It was, coincidentally, the third date that me and the woman in question had been on and, yes, we did have sex for the first time as a result. As it happened, a bit later we had sex...

Like They Do On The Discovery Channel…

I have mixed feelings towards sex from behind; both pro and con. That being the case, let's get the "bad stuff" out of the way first. I am a very touchy-feely kind of person; I love the sensation of skin touching skin and feeling my partner's body against mine. I am very tactile. My problem...

Arousal

For myself, arousal can take many forms. A whispered word, a well timed naughty text message, sometimes nothing more than a look in my direction. It comes down to the knowing that I am wanted and desired. There are no specific "go to" arousal techniques that are guaranteed to work for me. As I say...

Date Night

We make our separate ways to the hotel and meet in the bar. Light-hearted chat over drinks as we wait for our table. Maybe it's the alcohol, maybe it's the ambiance of the surroundings, maybe it's the result of the prolonged exchange of increasingly explicit messages that have been sent in the build up to...