In Position

I never really give that much thought to the positions that a partner and I adopt during sex. Generally we have a tendency to go with whatever just seems right at the time, and even that is mostly an unconscious choice based on circumstances and what we happen to be doing at that moment. Unless...

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Summer Loving

I admit, I hadn't thought of summer as being a particular kink; although living in Scotland, summer is often just a Tuesday afternoon in July or August, so perhaps I've really had sufficient time to consider it properly in that context. It's probably fair to say that, thanks to climate change, even here in Scotland,...

On The Face Of It

I have mentioned before that I am someone who revels in the sensual  aspects of sex. When it comes to enjoying sex, a big part of my pleasure comes from experiencing the pleasure of my partner. Her pleasure can, of course, be expressed in a manner of ways: the way her hands grip me, the...

Word for Wednesday – Complication

Complication /kom-pli-key-shuhn/ noun a condition, event, etc, that is complex or confused the act or process of complicating a disease or disorder arising as a consequence of another disease something that introduces, usually unexpectedly, some difficulty, problem, change, etc. that complicates or frustrates - e.g. her coming was a serious complication the act of forming a unified idea or impression from a number of...

TMI Tuesday: July 23, 2019

Why are you single? Mainly just because I am. I'm between relationships. I'm between partners. I'm between friends with benefits. The person with whom I form my next relationship has yet to reveal themselves to me, nor I to them. Why are you married or in your current monogamous relationship? Given my answer to Q1,...

The Social Media Duality

For me, social media, and in particular twitter has a strange duality. A lot of the time it is my "safe place"; a place where I can joke, flirt, vent, rant and sometimes express things that I can't elsewhere in my life. It is the place where, when things are at their darkest, I can...

TMI Tuesday: June 25, 2019

How many sexual partners do you currently have? None. I counted them twice just to make certain. Do you have any sexy secret kinks you have not told a current lover, and why are you so secretive? A. I don’t want to do my kinks with my current partner B. Partner would be shocked C....

TMI Tuesday: June 18, 2019 – Love is love, is everything to me

Love is love, is everything to me Love is made of many components. What are your top three components of love? For me, I think companionship, compassion empathy and the various forms of intimacy (physical, emotional, intellectual, sexual) are all hugely important elements of love. I'm not sure that any of them are more important...

Landmarks

It's a bit perverse that as I write this post about landmarks, the post I did for last week's Food For Thought Friday was, in fact, the 200th post on this section of my site. Yesterday's #SinfulSunday post was the 170th occasion that I had contributed to that particular meme. It also marked the 285th...