Touchy-Feely

I have always been a highly tactile person. When it comes to fully enjoying sex, I always prefer to engage all of my senses, but primary amongst them is touch How do you like to be touched? Confidently. I like a partner to explore my body with her fingers, lips and tongue. I like it...

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Orgasms

I have, to all intents and purposes, given up masturbating. For reasons that I have gone into before, I can't actually remember the last time I was responsible for my own climax. The result being that attempting to masturbate probably causes more frustration than it relieves and it is simply more effort than the result (assuming...

The Suffocating Darkness

Experience of depressive episodes teaches you to expect the unexpected. It doesn't matter how many times the cycle repeats itself, you have no way of knowing how far and how hard you will fall until you reach the bottom. Yesterday was bad, today was worse, tomorrow is still unknown. Given that I am nowhere near...

Silently Screaming

This is one of those posts that probably won't be read by many people. My main twitter account is currently off and my secondary account isn't connected to my blog in any way, so in terms of promotion, if you don't follow my blog via wordpress reader, the chances are, you'll never know.  Truth be...

TMI Tuesday: February 5 2019 – Oohs & Aahs

Oohs & Aahs Do you express your sexual pleasure with moans, groans, sighs, and other noises (provided that you are actually turned on)? Yes, each time I have sex (90-100% of the time). Yes, on most occasions (70-89% of the time). Yes, on some occasions (40-69% of the time). Yes, on a few occasions (less...

Exploration And Discovery

A person's sex life is very much a journey and not a destination. It is, in a very real sense, a journey of exploration and discovery that can last a lifetime (or as near as makes no difference). For me, as I suspect is the case for many, my first "sexual discovery" was very much...

TMI Tuesday: January 15 2019 – Sex And Lovers

Sex and Lovers Who has the tendency to hold a grudge–you or your significant other? I've never been one to hold grudges and neither, as far as I can recall, have my "significant others" (when I've had one) either. I guess I've either been lucky, or I just seem to attract partners who have a...

Time And Place

There is a proper time and place for sex. The time is now and the place is here with me... Any takers? No? No change there then... It's probably fair to say that I don't really have a favourite time of day for having sex. Full disclosure, it happens so rarely that any time it...

Overthinking And/Or Oversharing

So, last night, after a few days of being in a not particularly great place, I had a bit of a "wobble" and contemplated the possibility of just deleting everything and fading into the background. The fact that I am writing this particular post means, obviously, I didn't (well, not so far, anyway...). Had I...