The Social Media Duality

For me, social media, and in particular twitter has a strange duality. A lot of the time it is my "safe place"; a place where I can joke, flirt, vent, rant and sometimes express things that I can't elsewhere in my life. It is the place where, when things are at their darkest, I can...

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TMI Tuesday: June 25, 2019

How many sexual partners do you currently have? None. I counted them twice just to make certain. Do you have any sexy secret kinks you have not told a current lover, and why are you so secretive? A. I don’t want to do my kinks with my current partner B. Partner would be shocked C....

TMI Tuesday: June 18, 2019 – Love is love, is everything to me

Love is love, is everything to me Love is made of many components. What are your top three components of love? For me, I think companionship, compassion empathy and the various forms of intimacy (physical, emotional, intellectual, sexual) are all hugely important elements of love. I'm not sure that any of them are more important...

Landmarks

It's a bit perverse that as I write this post about landmarks, the post I did for last week's Food For Thought Friday was, in fact, the 200th post on this section of my site. Yesterday's #SinfulSunday post was the 170th occasion that I had contributed to that particular meme. It also marked the 285th...

Spreading Some Blog Love

As you are possibly aware, over the past few years, around Christmas time, I have curated my "Naughty List" of blogs that I have particularly enjoyed over preceding 12 months. In the 2018 edition, I recognised the outstanding contribution of three absolutely amazing women whose commitment and dedication to the sex blogging community goes way...

TMI Tuesday: May 7, 2019 – Masturbation Month

May is Masturbation Month.  Can one masturbate too much? I suppose it may be theoretically possible, but it's not something that I've ever experienced. For me, masturbating at all would be more notable. Do you masturbate daily? See previous question. 30 odd years ago, this would have been a resounding "Fuck yeah! And twice at...

Fantasy Fucks And Random Encounters

I am, generally speaking, not much given to fantasising. I don't really go in for the "celebrity crush" thing. That doesn't mean that there aren't some celebrities that I find attractive, but finding someone attractive and "fancying" someone in a sexual way are too entirely different things. In as much as I do fantasise about...

The Great Compartmentaliser

I am, generally speaking, quite open about all aspects of my life; be it my interests and hobbies, my mental health, my sex life, or my general views on life, the universe, and everything. Having said that I don't necessarily share every aspect of me with absolutely everybody. This is less apparent in everyday ("real")...

TMI Tuesday: April 9, 2019

TMI Tuesday Did you leave your last love for some one else or no one else? My last love left me for someone else, I didn't leave them. Do you enjoy being alone? Yes or No I don't mind it on the whole, so I guess my answer would be "Yes". I don't enjoy being...