Spreading Some Blog Love

As you are possibly aware, over the past few years, around Christmas time, I have curated my "Naughty List" of blogs that I have particularly enjoyed over preceding 12 months. In the 2018 edition, I recognised the outstanding contribution of three absolutely amazing women whose commitment and dedication to the sex blogging community goes way...

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TMI Tuesday: May 7, 2019 – Masturbation Month

May is Masturbation Month.  Can one masturbate too much? I suppose it may be theoretically possible, but it's not something that I've ever experienced. For me, masturbating at all would be more notable. Do you masturbate daily? See previous question. 30 odd years ago, this would have been a resounding "Fuck yeah! And twice at...

Fantasy Fucks And Random Encounters

I am, generally speaking, not much given to fantasising. I don't really go in for the "celebrity crush" thing. That doesn't mean that there aren't some celebrities that I find attractive, but finding someone attractive and "fancying" someone in a sexual way are too entirely different things. In as much as I do fantasise about...

The Great Compartmentaliser

I am, generally speaking, quite open about all aspects of my life; be it my interests and hobbies, my mental health, my sex life, or my general views on life, the universe, and everything. Having said that I don't necessarily share every aspect of me with absolutely everybody. This is less apparent in everyday ("real")...

TMI Tuesday: April 9, 2019

TMI Tuesday Did you leave your last love for some one else or no one else? My last love left me for someone else, I didn't leave them. Do you enjoy being alone? Yes or No I don't mind it on the whole, so I guess my answer would be "Yes". I don't enjoy being...

All By Myself

I have always been something of a loner. As a child I was the eldest but with a six year gap between me and my nearest sibling. Add to that the fact that I lived in a remote part of Scotland and that my nearest neighbours were several miles away, so the only time I...

Betrayal

It is, perhaps, one of the most difficult forms of loss to come to terms with; the loss that comes with the betrayal of trust from someone close to you. Friendships and relationships, like all things, have their time and come to an end for many reasons. With hindsight, these endings, while painful and upsetting...

Guidance And Support

I have mentioned on a number of occasions how much the "One right way..." concept annoys me. The attitude that there is a one size fits all approach to D/s relationships and the dynamics within them displays a level of ignorance and, indeed, arrogance that needs to be challenged whenever and wherever it is encountered....

Just A Man

I was brought up with some very conservative and, some might say, old fashioned views and attitudes about how men behaved. Firstly, when it came to women, we looked after them, we held doors open for them, we let the precede us wherever we went and, under no circumstances, did we ever raise a hand...