It’s Not All About Intercourse

I've never had a sexual relationship where intercourse wasn't (ultimately) the predominant sexual activity that was undertaken. That "ultimately" is in there because there is one very slight technical exception to that) rule; that being what was my first sexual relationship. When I say that, it's not that the girl in question and I didn't...

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The Naughty List

Round about this time of year, the jolly judgemental guy in the red suit starts making lists of everyone who has been naughty and nice. Personally, I've always insisted that naughty and nice are pretty much the same thing and so there is really only the need for one list. Unlike the Top 100 lists...

20 Movies

So, like quite a few people, over the past few weeks I've been playing along with the #20MovieChallenge on twitter. It has been a lot of fun watching people post scenes from their particular film archives and trying to identify the films in question. All in all, the hardest bit of the exercise has probably...

A Matter Of Style

It may come as a surprise, but I do actually wear clothes.  Being a native of a cold climate and generally having to interact with my fellow humans means that one simply cannot be naked at all times. If I have any sense of style at all, it could probably best be described as casual,...

Women On Top

I suspect that it's pretty fair to say that the subject of Female Domination is not one I know much, if indeed anything, about. There is, of course, a very good reason for this: while, in a D\s setting, I may identify as "a Dominant", I am, very obviously, not a woman. I have also...

Temporary Loss Of Control

I am something of a self-control freak. I get uncomfortable when I am not the master of my own destiny. I'm not really one for placing myself in other's hands. Oh, I accept that there are times when I have to rely on others; I cannot know or do everything myself. I am, however, at...

Casual Fun

Many years ago, late at night, I was alone, at home, in bed, chatting online on MSN to a friend of mine. The friend in question was, of course, female. The conversation was, as the conversations we had so often were, flirty and decidedly frank. I can't remember which of us first mentioned that our...

When I’m Down

I've always been very open about my depression and mental health. I don't let it define me, but it is so much a part of who I am that I can't really not acknowledge the fact that it is a very big part of what goes together to make me the person I am. As...

Time Is Fleeting

In the right circumstances, I've always quite enjoyed a good quickie. Now, granted I wouldn't want every fuck that I have to fall into the "wham, bam, thank you ma'am" category, but sometimes that's what's needed. There are, I'll admit, few things that beat a long, drawn out, sex session with fondling, foreplay and lots...