- Why should you have sex on a first date?
Why not? If the chemistry is there and both of you are willing, just go for it if it seems right. If the sex is “passable” then you know it may be worth trying again. If the sex is downright awful, then you probably know it’s not going anywhere, but at least you both got a shag.
- Why do you like giving oral sex?
I had to change this question because as a sensualist it is something I love doing and I love everything about going down on a woman; the taste, the scent, the sounds, her every reaction. Quite simply, it’s something I can’t get enough of.
- Tongue or no tongue? Explain.
Tongue – just because it’s natural. The more aroused you get, the more it’s likely to happen.
- Would you have a sugar daddy or sugar mama?
No. Even as someone who identifies as “Dominant”, I’ve always felt uncomfortable about the term “Daddy”. Not being judgemental because I appreciate that it works in some couples’ dynamic and that kink is a very personal thing, it’s just not my thing.
- What’s a sure sign that you need to get laid?
It’s a day of the week that has the letter “Y” in it’s name. In all seriousness though, I don’t think I ever actually do need to get laid but I am aware that sometimes my frustration could do with some release and, given my tendency towards “orgasmic reticence” when I have a wank, the best way to relieve it is a bloody good shag.
Bonus: Right this very second, which do you prefer– to make love or fuck like a wild animal?
Full disclosure, at this moment, neither; I’d rather be asleep as I’ve been on the go since 4am. I’ve never liked the term “make love”; it implies that sex and love are the same thing which, in my opinion, they most definitely are not. You can have sex with someone you don’t love and you can love someone without having sex with them. Love is an emotion, sex is a physical (and mental) activity. The upshot of this is that I am definitely #TeamFuck.