- What do you find sexiest in a woman?
I’ve written about this before . I don’t think there is any one thing that makes a woman “sexy”. While physical appearance/attraction may be the initial hook, what draws us in and lands us is a combination of things; looks, personality, humour, attitude, confidence. A self-assured woman with a hint of vulnerability who can fuck me with her eyes before a word has been spoken is pretty much my kryptonite.
- What do you find least sexy in a man?
Being male and boringly straight, the thing I find least sexy about men is that they are men.
- Have you ever been the other woman or man? Would you do it again?
Yes, I have been the other man. It wasn’t the easiest or best situation, but we both knew where we stood and what we wanted out of it (basically sex). The sex was very good and there were no “deeper” expectations. Would I do it again? I suspect not. I hope I never find myself in circumstances that even come close to those I was in at the time. Having said that, I guess I can’t entirely rule the possibility out. The most accurate answer is probably that I have no intention of doing it again, but circumstances can change.
- Who puts more into a romantic relationship you or your significant other?
I think both parties have to put similar amounts of work/investment into a relationship or, ultimately, it ceases to be a relationship. That’s not to say the effort is equal all the time, but it should average out so that there are no obvious imbalances.
- Do you have a “work wife” or “office husband”?
No, but since I work from home, if I did, it would have to be my cat, which would just be weird.
Bonus: Are you in a healthy relationship? What makes you think so?
See the answer to Q4 above.