I’ve written before about how much I love cunnilingus and how it taps into my sensualism. I have also mentioned how much I enjoy getting my cock sucked. The truth is, I enjoy sex and all aspects of sexual activity.
Oral sex has many aspects. It can be used as a form of foreplay; each partner taking it in turns (or sometimes simultaneously) to drive the other wild with their lips and tongues. It can also be a fully satisfying act in its own right; being brought, or taking your partner to a climax.
The thing about it is, whichever of the above scenarios is being played out, the pace is being set by the giver. If you are the one performing it on your partner, you are the one that is in control.
As the giver, I love to be able to take my time, to luxuriate, to feast; prolonging my partner’s pleasure for as long as possible. I can set the pace, I can, to an extent, control the duration. I can enjoy my partner’s pleasure fully, without having to concern myself with my own. I definitely don’t have to worry about my own climax occasionally taking us both by surprise and bringing things to an abrupt halt.
As I’ve said before, I love the sensual experience of going down on my partner; the scents, the sounds and especially the taste.
As a receiver, I love the fact that my pleasure is in my partners hands (well, mouth, if we’re being pedantic about it). I love the fact, again, that it’s not something I need to concern myself with; she is setting the pace. She can suck and lick and kiss as hard or as gently, as fast or as slowly as she likes. My pleasure is down to her.
Which do I prefer. Well, when I’m face down between her legs, tasting the rich sweetness of her cunt, I definitely prefer being the giver. When I’m sitting/lying there with my cock in her mouth as she teases me with her lips and tongue, I definitely prefer being the receiver.
The honest answer is, I prefer whichever I am doing or having done to me.