Prolonged Foreplay

In a previous relationship, we tended to see each other at most once or at most twice a week. More often it tended to be even less frequently. For us, sexting was very much a form of prolonged foreplay. It would start several days before we actually saw each other. Sometimes it would start almost... Continue Reading →


Steak & Blow-Job Day And All That Bollocks

Steak and Blow-Job Day irritates the fuck out of me; in much the same way that the whole "blow-jobs are flowers for men" thing irritates the fuck out of me. Now this could be construed as sour grapes on the part of someone who, this year, once again, will almost certainly get neither. I assure... Continue Reading →

Word for Wednesday – Ephemeral

Ephemeral /ɪˈfɛmərəl/ adjective lasting for only a short time; transitory; short-lived: ephemeral pleasure On the great, cosmic scale, we are all ephemeral creatures. What really got me thinking though, was the online communities we now, increasingly, belong to. Online relationships are still relationships. They are still real. People who get along with each other and enjoy each other's "company" can still do so in... Continue Reading →


I recently did a post on self-edging; the experience of prolonging that wonderfully exquisite agony just before allowing myself the much needed release of orgasm. I have also described my masturbation technique. Unfortunately, I have also mentioned that, for reasons of the medication I take for my depression, both of the aforementioned activities are rarities.... Continue Reading →

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