Temporary Loss Of Control

I am something of a self-control freak. I get uncomfortable when I am not the master of my own destiny. I'm not really one for placing myself in other's hands. Oh, I accept that there are times when I have to rely on others; I cannot know or do everything myself. I am, however, at... Continue Reading →

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Casual Fun

Many years ago, late at night, I was alone, at home, in bed, chatting online on MSN to a friend of mine. The friend in question was, of course, female. The conversation was, as the conversations we had so often were, flirty and decidedly frank. I can't remember which of us first mentioned that our... Continue Reading →

Word for Wednesday – Oblivion

Oblivion /uh-bliv-ee-uh n/ noun the state of being completely forgotten or unknown the state of forgetting or of being oblivious the act or process of dying out; complete annihilation or extinction For those of us with depression, there can often be something quite seductive about the state of oblivion. It can, however, mean different things for different people. For some, oblivion is a longing for death as an escape; an end of suffering. For others, it is all about... Continue Reading →

Word for Wednesday – Incognito

Incognito /in-kog-nee-toh, in-kog-ni-toh/ adjective having one's identity concealed, as under an assumed name, especially to avoid notice or formal attentions. adverb with the real identity concealed. noun a person who is incognito. the state of being incognito. the disguise or character assumed by an incognito. Assuming an "online persona", the state of being incognito is... Continue Reading →

Word for Wednesday – Collaboration

Collaboration /kuh-lab-uh-rey-shuh n/ noun the act of working with another or others on a joint project something created by working jointly with another or others If you think about it in a particular way, sex is a highly evolved form of collaboration; the partners involved combining their efforts to create a wonderful and (hopefully) mutually satisfying experience. It is the embodiment of the concept of the whole being greater than the sum of its... Continue Reading →

Word for Wednesday – Lust

Lust /luhst/ noun intense sexual desire or appetite. uncontrolled or illicit sexual desire or appetite. a passionate or overmastering desire or craving. verb to have intense sexual desire. to have a yearning or desire; have a strong or excessive craving Lust: it is, as we know, one of the seven deadly sins but it is also one of humanity's oldest and most primal drives. Lust transcends mere want, it is a deep-seated need that drives us. It is a drive so basic, so fundamental that possibly... Continue Reading →

Word for Wednesday – Doppelgänger

Doppelgänger /daw-puh l-geng-er/ noun a ghostly double or counterpart of a living person I sometimes wonder where the Zen Nudist ends and Kilted Wookie begins; or indeed where they both end and the "real" me begins. I have written before about how the Zen Nudist/Kilted Wookie dichotomy came to be but, I am an extreme compartmentaliser by nature. Every facet of my life... Continue Reading →

Word for Wednesday – Eulogy

Eulogy /yoo-luh-jee/ noun a formal speech or piece of writing praising a person or thing, esp a person who has recently died high praise or commendation Like many people, I was shocked and deeply saddened when Mal announced the news of the passing of M from Cammies on The Floor. This isn't the first tribute to M that members of our community have left, and I'm positive it won't be the last. Given the shock that came of the... Continue Reading →

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