Guidance And Support

I have mentioned on a number of occasions how much the "One right way..." concept annoys me. The attitude that there is a one size fits all approach to D/s relationships and the dynamics within them displays a level of ignorance and, indeed, arrogance that needs to be challenged whenever and wherever it is encountered.... Continue Reading →


TMI Tuesday: March 26, 2019 – Do Your Thang!

Do Your Thang! When you have experienced sexual difficulty, how did you overcome it? Bizarrely, I wrote about this for Food For Thought Friday just the other day. In my context, sexual difficulties are simply part of the broader range of difficulties I experience as a result of suffering from depression. They happen, I deal... Continue Reading →


I have, to all intents and purposes, given up masturbating. For reasons that I have gone into before, I can't actually remember the last time I was responsible for my own climax. The result being that attempting to masturbate probably causes more frustration than it relieves and it is simply more effort than the result (assuming... Continue Reading →

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